Gentlemen, would you like to know how to charm a girl? If there’s a special lady you’ve been thinking about, do you want to know how to make her like you — and only you? Well, read on, because the following tips are going to show you exactly how to snag the girl of your dreams.
1. Be Mature
In kindergarten, a girl knew you liked her if you teased her and pulled her hair. Well, that time’s over now! Because girls tend to mature faster than guys, a girl (or, I should say, woman) who is all grown up is far less likely to be charmed by immature acts from guys. She is far more likely to respond to a guy who acts and looks like to he has it all together than someone who just wants to play the fool to get her attention. Such behavior is just going to make you look desperate to her. So play it cool and by all means, laugh and joke around with her (no one wants to be with someone who is serious ALL the time) but be sure to keep your behavior and actions age appropriate.
2. Be Kind
Women are intrinsically nurturing creatures, and they look to be with someone who can show a little kindness and caring from time to time, both toward her and to others. She likely doesn’t want to be with a jerk, so tone down the harshness or abrupt attitude, if you have one. No, you don’t have to be a wimp, but show a little kindness to people and she’ll definitely be attracted to your sensitive side.
3. Be Thoughtful
You already know that you should never forget her birthday or your anniversary, but what about the times in between? It’s the little things that really count, so make an effort to show her that you are thinking about her even when you’re not with her. For example, if she told you she has a big presentation to make at work, be sure to send her a quick “good luck” note before she gets to the office or follow up with a call afterward to ask her how it went. When she casually mentions she likes a particular flower or restaurant, surprise her later on by sending her a bouquet or booking a table, which leads to the next tip…
4. Be A Good Listener
Women are always attracted to men who are good listeners. We all want to be heard, but women naturally talk more than men (even as babies, girls tend to talk in sentences sooner than boys), so listening to her is very important. When she speaks, make eye contact, don’t fidget with your watch or phone, make her feel like you are truly present in the conversation and that she matters to you.
5. Be Tidy
Looks aren’t everything, but they do matter. You are less likely to charm a girl if you have a sloppy appearance or terrible, dirty clothes. So, clean it up guys. You don’t have to spend hours in front of the mirror (leave that to her), but paying a bit of attention to the way you look says that you are proud of who you are, and that you care enough about her to look your very best when you’re together.
6. Compliment Her
Pay her a compliment now and then. Not all girls are vain, but they all want to know exactly what it is that you like about them. We all have our insecurities, and when someone genuinely compliments us, it feels good. So pay her a compliment from time to time. And when you do, don’t just compliment her looks, compliment her mind and accomplishments. If she volunteered all Saturday at an animal shelter, tell her how caring and sweet she is. She will love you for noticing!
7. Be Romantic
Of course, the number one way to charm her is to be romantic. Roses, poetry, candlelight dinner – these are all very romantic, but be sure that whatever you do is romantic in HER opinion. If she finds long walks in the rain romantic, well, get your umbrella. Being her Prince Charming is not just about charming her – it’s about getting to know the real her, inside and out.
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