When you get dating advice, there’s a huge difference in what you’re instructed to do depending on whether you’re listening to a guy or a girl. If you listen to another guy on how to make a girl want you, it’s more likely he’ll base his tips on what he thinks girls want. If you listen to a girl, you’re getting better insight into what she would want and what she knows what her own girl friends want from a guy. So take it from a girl, sometimes the straightforward game is so much easier and far more effective than what the world’s most famous pick up artists will tell you.
Dress The Part
It’s true, girls like to sit around at home in their pajamas with no makeup on. I do it all the time. But when a man catches my eye, it’s highly unlikely he’s dressed down in sweats and an old t-shirt. We’re all hypocrites. We’re attracted to people who look attractive. It’s science, so make an effort at least when you’re out in public.
Exude Confidence
Some girls are drawn to guys with problems. They have the urge to take care of them emotionally as well as physically. But have you ever noticed that a lot of the time, these bad boys who can’t get their lives together are still the type to have a ton of confidence? I’m not advising you to become a trainwreck. I’m just reminding you that no matter what, confidence is always sexy to a woman.
We like to air our own insecurities and be given reassurance, but I don’t have a lot of girl friends who would be turned on if they had to constantly give their boyfriends self-esteem boosts. It must come down to our instincts to find a mate that can take care of us and the more confident he seems, the more likely it will be that we can depend on him.
Work On Your Own Interests And Passions
This is a thing men and women have in common. No one is going to be interested in you if you aren’t interested in anything. Unless you’ve got the body of a male model, the face of a Hollywood actor or the bank account of a Russian billionaire. In that case, you’ll find some of the world’s most beautiful women are lining up to get a date. Otherwise, you’ll have to offer a little more substance when it comes to personality. This is a great way to make women want you without having to do a thing. It can be anything. Nothing is too trivial because someone out there could be into it too.
Showcase your love for travel by blogging about it. Instagram some photos of great eats you’ve been having lately if you’re a foodie. It’ll make some girl out there think, “Hey, that looks like a fun time. We could have a fun time together.” Yes, it really is that easy. Being the kind of guy with his own interests is how you make the women come to you instead of having to go to them with pick up lines.
Be Subtle With Flirting
Now, this is what is really tricky. When we are vaguely interested in a guy or intrigued and want to know more, we do it by flirting. Or we let him come to us and flirt with us. When you’re in this phase, you’re walking a tightrope. I’m sorry guys, but it’s true. We’re noticing you and making mental notes. Is he confident about approaching me? Is he coming on too strong? Is he so overconfident that he thinks he’s got it in the bag?
These are just some of the things we’ll be asking ourselves. When it comes to flirting, you can’t go wrong with smiling, saying hi whenever you see her and having a short conversation. To toe the line like a pro, take cues from her. If she’s smiling back and engaging actively, you can take the flirtation up a notch. Even friends flirt with each other, so a little sexual innuendo can’t hurt.
Make Her Laugh
Be the guy she always looks forward to seeing because he brightens up her day. I’ve seen girls develop an attraction for guys they never saw that way before just because of this. I don’t mean for you to walk in telling jokes or feeling like you need to be on all the time in order to entertain her. Just make an effort to be the kind of person who deals with difficult situations by seeing the humor in them. Crack jokes whenever it’s appropriate.
Smart girls like sarcasm and wit more than crude jokes. It does take effort and it is a bit like having to entertain someone and you can feel free to skip it if it doesn’t come naturally to you. But if you have a little bit of a comedian in you, don’t hesitate to let him out because keeping him suppressed is doing you no favors.
Take The Lead
I can personally vouch for this one. It totally works. I mentioned earlier that deep down, even if they don’t want to how to make a girl want you - woman kissing man admit it to themselves, girls are attracted to guys that make them feel like they would be taken care of. It’s not just with money or muscles. It the ability to think on their feet, to always have an idea or a solution. That doesn’t mean we want to be bossed around or told what to do.
It just means that if we had to pick a guy that we have to take care of versus one who can take care of us, we’d pick the second guy. Again, you don’t have to pull out your wallet when it comes to taking care of her. It’s the little things. If you know how to get somewhere so she doesn’t have to worry about it. If she’s not sure where to go on a first date to but you have a great idea or two. Girls are suckers for this stuff. A guy who can’t step up will see his relationships fail. A guy who is confident enough to get a girl to rely on him instead of relying on her to take care of the little things will have no problem making her want him.
Show Her Your Soft Side
If you want to know how to make a girl want you when you haven’t even asked her to date you yet, do it by getting a little vulnerable. Girls are always questioning themselves when they’re interested in a guy, whether it’s going anywhere, whether he’s worth pining over. If you can get her into a conversation where you talk long enough to get to your hopes, dreams and fears, you’ve got a really good shot. It’s the best way to make her open up to you in return.
If she starts to talk about her personal issues and thoughts as well, try to have similar conversations again. This is like playing the long game and it’s definitely a little more demanding in effort than telling her you’re attracted to her and want to date her, but it’ll make her want you without needing any further convincing. And another bonus for going slow is that by the time you ask her, the odds that she’ll reject you after all that are very low.
Consider Getting Fit
This one is the most obvious. Chances are, you don’t have to do a thing. Even girls that are fit head to toe don’t always care if the guy they dates is. But you have to admit, when a girl is that fit, she does turn your head. So its only natural that girls are also attracted to guys that are fit. If you can master your own physique, you won’t even have to put an effort into the majority of the tips I’ve given you. It’s sad but true. Another option is to work on everything to some degree.
To not get obsessed, but to make an effort in all departments. You can choose to start eating healthier and start working out more without a specific body goal in mind. That way, you’ll be working on your health but also getting more physically attractive at the same time. Feel totally free to skip this one but just remember that it makes everything easier. This is either very fortunate or unfortunate, depending on how hard or easy it would be for you to get fit.
Never Complain About Money
This is a tip other guys probably won’t tell you about but it’s something that girls often discuss with each other. There’s nothing worse than going on a date with a guy that complains about the prices on a menu when you’re just trying to have a good time. Even when we can guess that you don’t have millions to burn, we’re fine with that fact but we don’t enjoy worrying about your wallet along with you. So until you get her to fall in love with you, stay quiet about money issues while you’re getting her to fall for you.
Dress The Part
It’s true, girls like to sit around at home in their pajamas with no makeup on. I do it all the time. But when a man catches my eye, it’s highly unlikely he’s dressed down in sweats and an old t-shirt. We’re all hypocrites. We’re attracted to people who look attractive. It’s science, so make an effort at least when you’re out in public.
Exude Confidence
Some girls are drawn to guys with problems. They have the urge to take care of them emotionally as well as physically. But have you ever noticed that a lot of the time, these bad boys who can’t get their lives together are still the type to have a ton of confidence? I’m not advising you to become a trainwreck. I’m just reminding you that no matter what, confidence is always sexy to a woman.
We like to air our own insecurities and be given reassurance, but I don’t have a lot of girl friends who would be turned on if they had to constantly give their boyfriends self-esteem boosts. It must come down to our instincts to find a mate that can take care of us and the more confident he seems, the more likely it will be that we can depend on him.
Work On Your Own Interests And Passions
This is a thing men and women have in common. No one is going to be interested in you if you aren’t interested in anything. Unless you’ve got the body of a male model, the face of a Hollywood actor or the bank account of a Russian billionaire. In that case, you’ll find some of the world’s most beautiful women are lining up to get a date. Otherwise, you’ll have to offer a little more substance when it comes to personality. This is a great way to make women want you without having to do a thing. It can be anything. Nothing is too trivial because someone out there could be into it too.
Showcase your love for travel by blogging about it. Instagram some photos of great eats you’ve been having lately if you’re a foodie. It’ll make some girl out there think, “Hey, that looks like a fun time. We could have a fun time together.” Yes, it really is that easy. Being the kind of guy with his own interests is how you make the women come to you instead of having to go to them with pick up lines.
Be Subtle With Flirting
Now, this is what is really tricky. When we are vaguely interested in a guy or intrigued and want to know more, we do it by flirting. Or we let him come to us and flirt with us. When you’re in this phase, you’re walking a tightrope. I’m sorry guys, but it’s true. We’re noticing you and making mental notes. Is he confident about approaching me? Is he coming on too strong? Is he so overconfident that he thinks he’s got it in the bag?
These are just some of the things we’ll be asking ourselves. When it comes to flirting, you can’t go wrong with smiling, saying hi whenever you see her and having a short conversation. To toe the line like a pro, take cues from her. If she’s smiling back and engaging actively, you can take the flirtation up a notch. Even friends flirt with each other, so a little sexual innuendo can’t hurt.
Make Her Laugh
Be the guy she always looks forward to seeing because he brightens up her day. I’ve seen girls develop an attraction for guys they never saw that way before just because of this. I don’t mean for you to walk in telling jokes or feeling like you need to be on all the time in order to entertain her. Just make an effort to be the kind of person who deals with difficult situations by seeing the humor in them. Crack jokes whenever it’s appropriate.
Smart girls like sarcasm and wit more than crude jokes. It does take effort and it is a bit like having to entertain someone and you can feel free to skip it if it doesn’t come naturally to you. But if you have a little bit of a comedian in you, don’t hesitate to let him out because keeping him suppressed is doing you no favors.
Take The Lead
I can personally vouch for this one. It totally works. I mentioned earlier that deep down, even if they don’t want to how to make a girl want you - woman kissing man admit it to themselves, girls are attracted to guys that make them feel like they would be taken care of. It’s not just with money or muscles. It the ability to think on their feet, to always have an idea or a solution. That doesn’t mean we want to be bossed around or told what to do.
It just means that if we had to pick a guy that we have to take care of versus one who can take care of us, we’d pick the second guy. Again, you don’t have to pull out your wallet when it comes to taking care of her. It’s the little things. If you know how to get somewhere so she doesn’t have to worry about it. If she’s not sure where to go on a first date to but you have a great idea or two. Girls are suckers for this stuff. A guy who can’t step up will see his relationships fail. A guy who is confident enough to get a girl to rely on him instead of relying on her to take care of the little things will have no problem making her want him.
Show Her Your Soft Side
If you want to know how to make a girl want you when you haven’t even asked her to date you yet, do it by getting a little vulnerable. Girls are always questioning themselves when they’re interested in a guy, whether it’s going anywhere, whether he’s worth pining over. If you can get her into a conversation where you talk long enough to get to your hopes, dreams and fears, you’ve got a really good shot. It’s the best way to make her open up to you in return.
If she starts to talk about her personal issues and thoughts as well, try to have similar conversations again. This is like playing the long game and it’s definitely a little more demanding in effort than telling her you’re attracted to her and want to date her, but it’ll make her want you without needing any further convincing. And another bonus for going slow is that by the time you ask her, the odds that she’ll reject you after all that are very low.
Consider Getting Fit
This one is the most obvious. Chances are, you don’t have to do a thing. Even girls that are fit head to toe don’t always care if the guy they dates is. But you have to admit, when a girl is that fit, she does turn your head. So its only natural that girls are also attracted to guys that are fit. If you can master your own physique, you won’t even have to put an effort into the majority of the tips I’ve given you. It’s sad but true. Another option is to work on everything to some degree.
To not get obsessed, but to make an effort in all departments. You can choose to start eating healthier and start working out more without a specific body goal in mind. That way, you’ll be working on your health but also getting more physically attractive at the same time. Feel totally free to skip this one but just remember that it makes everything easier. This is either very fortunate or unfortunate, depending on how hard or easy it would be for you to get fit.
Never Complain About Money
This is a tip other guys probably won’t tell you about but it’s something that girls often discuss with each other. There’s nothing worse than going on a date with a guy that complains about the prices on a menu when you’re just trying to have a good time. Even when we can guess that you don’t have millions to burn, we’re fine with that fact but we don’t enjoy worrying about your wallet along with you. So until you get her to fall in love with you, stay quiet about money issues while you’re getting her to fall for you.
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